With holiday office parties happening all over the country, now is a great time to go over some do's and don'ts for employees hoping to have a good time ... but not too good of a time.

 

The Do's

 

Do attend the party. Even though the holiday season is the busiest of the year for many people, time must be made to attend the office holiday party. Declining the invitation can imply an individual doesn't care about the company or his or her coworkers.

 

Do behave. Even if the party is as jovial as jovial gets, remember behavior is still being monitored by fellow employees and higher-ups.

 

Do be gracious to the hosts. The company often covers the tab for the party, so be gracious when leaving for the night, thanking bosses for the food and drink. Also, avoid negative comments about the party, regardless of how bad something might be.

 

Do ask about guests ahead of time. Most office parties encourage bringing spouses or significant others to the festivities. However, those thinking of bringing kids along should inquire ahead of time if that's acceptable. Sometimes an office holiday party is not the ideal locale for children.

 

The Don'ts

 

Don't dress as if going out for a hot night on the town. Conservative dress is often best. It also might not hurt to wear something that symbolizes the holiday season.

 

Don't get overly flirty with coworkers. Nearly every business has had an office romance or two. But publicly flirting with a coworker in front of the rest of the office and their significant others is a good way to become fodder for the water cooler conversations come Monday morning.

 

Don't overindulge. The food might be delicious and the alcohol might be free, but overindulging in either is a recipe for disaster. Moderation is ideal when it comes to food and drink at the office party, and ask a spouse or significant other to be mindful of how much you have had, if necessary.

 

Don't discuss work. While some work discussions are bound to happen, the laid-back nature of the office party might cause some to say something they will later regret. Keep topics light and avoid discussing anything that might lead to an argument.

 

Don't drink and drive. Workers who have had one too many should call a taxi or ask for a ride home. Law enforcement officials are extra aware of drunk drivers during the holidays, and getting behind the wheel after a drink or two is never a good idea. SP10A929

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